Mind Ya Business!

 

It is official, Lori Harvey and Michael B. Jordan are a couple! The Instagram post has made Lori Harvey the most trending girl on social media for the start of 2021. Comments from all over the world, came pouring in about the couple's relationship but mainly centering it around Harvey. For some time, the couple were rumored to be together but made it exclusive with a steamy picture that set the internet on fire. 

Named as one of the sexist men alive of 2020 by People's magazine, Jordan has stolen the hearts of many women and still holding the trophy. In November, the actor told the media about his ideal standards of what type of woman he wanted to be in a relationship with. But what about Harvey? Although the model is very attractive, a lot of mean comments were made about how Harvey lived her love life and managed her relationships with men.

Some assumingly even faulted her for living by her stepdad Steve Harvey's book "Think Like a Man". As if she studied the book to be able to date the type of the top-tier celebrities she has been with in the past. But this is not what makes Lori Harvey favorable to me, it is her ability to not caring too much about other opinions. The art of not caring about other opinions is one of the ultimate powers to have because it leads to building personal privacy and lack of issues with negativity.

Of course when you are as private and in control of your life being a celebrity it becomes an issue. The audience wants drama from celebrities whether if they know them personally or not. The internet club of social media viewers may have different groups of people who support or are against the idea. But who cares! What we can learn from Harvey is to mind our business, live life, and keep moving forward. It is normal to date a lot of people, it is normal to tell people how to treat you, and it is okay to live by a standard. Mind ya business!